Beauty-“Exist in photographs for your children, for yourself, for the people who love you” -Sue Bryce

When was the last time you hired a professional photographer to create lasting memories? Perhaps it was at your graduation or on your wedding day. If so, it's time for you to exist in photographs.

Now, picture the future. Years from now, when your children or family ask to see your photos, what will you have to show them? While a few fun selfies may evoke some nostalgia, they won't carry the same weight. However, if you choose to exist in photographs, we can create something beautiful that you and future generations will cherish.

The beautiful photo of my dear Mom was an impromptu session in February 2018 as I was experimenting with my studio lights. She came over for a visit and dinner. I asked her to pose with our kids (two of her six grandchildren), and she hesitated, saying, 'I didn't do my hair!' We quickly assured her that she looked beautiful just as she always did... and she was always smiling.

Take a look at all those smiles and the sparkle in her eyes. Little did we know that this would be the last time I would photograph my Mom in the studio.

My advice? Please exist in photos. If you think you don't need professional photos (and you don't really think that, right?), at the very least, ask someone to take a photo with you in it! Print the picture, place it in a frame next to your children's beds, or tuck it into an album. Give yourself the gift of being present with loved ones, regardless of any objections you may have. When I look at the photos of my Mom, I don't see imperfections; I see my Mom, and our kids see their Grandma. I promise you will never say there are too many images after losing a loved one.

Why am I sharing such a personal message? Because I've lost both of my parents. I cherish the photos we have of them. I want you to pause and reflect on the importance of family photos and preserving your family's history.

I encourage you to stop, be present, and celebrate yourself. You are beautiful, you are loved, and you have a legacy. You are worth it.